2016铜仁一中国旗下讲话0620星期一:你养我长大,我陪你变老
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你养我长大,我陪你变老我是一个00后,在场的同学还有许多是90后。我们一出生,就拥有父母最温暖的爱,但正是因为这份爱,我们要承担赡养父母的全部责任。最开始我觉得,如果想做好一个好女儿,那我肯定得挣好多







 
 
        我是一个00后,在场的同学还有许多是90后。我们一出生,就拥有父母最温暖的爱,但正是因为这份爱,我们要承担赡养父母的全部责任。最开始我觉得,如果想做好一个好女儿,那我肯定得挣好多钱,然后让我爸妈,过上最好的生活。后来我发现,我错了。
 
      初中的那个早晨,我永远记得,老妈蜷缩在椅子上,抱着双膝、埋着头,身体不时地发抖,她疲惫的声音颤抖着说“妈妈没有妈妈了”。 “妈妈没有妈妈了”, 大家觉得这句话在表达什么?“悲伤、软弱、求呵护”,我只记得我小的时候,妈妈爱给隔壁老王家的小孩买糖果吃,牵着别人家孩子的手,我总有强烈的紧迫感,妈妈会被抢走吗?妈妈不要我了吗?但我从来都没有想过,“妈妈没有妈妈了”是一种什么样的感觉呢?我发现这个在我印象中无比坚不可摧、活力四射的老妈,突然间老了。“妈妈没有妈妈了” 表达的不是悲伤,也不是软弱,而是依赖,父母其实是我们每个人最大的依赖。而我们的父母,失去了他们的父母,他们还能依赖谁呢?所以在那一刻,我才意识,父母比任何时候都需要我,而且他们后半辈子,能够依赖的只有我。我得养她、陪她,把我所有的爱都给她,就像她一直对我那样。从那以后,我常和老妈聊聊我的班级,谈谈最近的穿衣风格。因为我明白了这一点,赡养父母绝对不是只把优秀的成绩单给父母,而应该是,我们参与他们的生活,陪伴他们的生活。
 
       我听过一个姐姐说过她的故事。有一次,在泡温泉时,我正给我妈吹头发,旁边的一位阿姨说:“哎,你女儿真孝顺!”阿姨很快又说,我有一儿子在美国,每次都回来带我们出去旅游,可惜不在了......,我当时对“身体发肤受之父母,不敢毁伤”有了很深的理解!龙应台有一篇《目送》,其结尾:父亲用背影默默告诉你,不必追!可是今天,我想说,我们就得追,而且我们要从今天开始追,提早追,大步去追。至亲至爱,不应该是看着彼此,渐行渐远的背影,而应该是“你养我长大,我陪你变老”。
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 






 
We are all lucky children who were born after the 90’s. We can own the warmest love from our parents as soon as we were born. But because of this love, we should be responsible for supporting our parents. At first, I think that it’s better for a good son to earn very much money. And then, let my parents live a comfortable life. But now, I found that I was exactly wrong.
 
It was on the morning of junior high school. I’ll never forget the sight of my poor mother. She sat on a chain, with her head burying in her knees. She told me tiredly “mom no longer has a mom” “mom no longer has a mom?” What’s that feels like. It’s not sorrow, not weakness, but just a sense of dependent. I regrettably found that the impregnable and active mother, suddenly became a pitiful girl.
 
The parents are our biggest dependence. But when our parents lose their biggest dependence, who can they depend on! At that moment, I suddenly realized that we became their new and only dependence. We should support them, companion them. Treat them just as they did for us in the past.
 
We’re surely under the great pressure of supporting our parents. But they still do many things for us. When they are saying something like “everything is well”. But is everything truly well. Maybe the answer is completely not! They tell a lie to us just don’t want us to be worried about them. We should care for them no matter what they say to prevent us. Remember that there’s a Chinese saying: The tree wants to remain quiet, but the wind won’t stop, the son wants to serve his parents in their old age, but they have already gone.
 
Just like all the parents don’t want to be absent in their children’s growing. We shouldn’t be absent in our parents senium. Today I’m standing here to tell all of you. To be our parents best love, we shouldn’t leave them behind. Instead, we ought to stay with them and give them the best untill the end of their lives.
 
 





 

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